Bu t\u00fcr korkular genelde istenmeyen bir durumla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131karlar. Bunlara \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131msal korkularda denebilir.
\nA\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki \u00f6rnek olayda da g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenci asl\u0131nda sahurda \u00e7al\u0131nan davulun sesinden de\u011fil, sahurda ya\u015fanan
\ntats\u0131z olay\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in rahats\u0131z olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n

“\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumdan bu yana hala devam eden korkum, Ramazan aylar\u0131nda sahurda \u00e7al\u0131nan davul sesidir. Bu korkumu yenmek
\ni\u00e7in \u00e7ok u\u011fra\u015ft\u0131m ama yenemedim. Bu korkumun sebebi sahur vakitlerinde ailemde ya\u015fanan tats\u0131z olaylard\u0131. O g\u00fcnden
\nberi sahurlarda davul sesini duydu\u011fumda, yine ayn\u0131 olaylar\u0131n tekrar edece\u011finden korkuyorum. Bu korkumu a\u015famad\u0131\u011f\u0131m
\ni\u00e7in \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcyorum. Hatta korkumdan yurtta kendimi ka\u00e7 kez ranzadan att\u0131m.”<\/p>\n

Davul sesi korkusu i\u00e7in ne yap\u0131lmal\u0131?<\/p>\n

Bu t\u00fcrden korkular\u0131n olu\u015fmamas\u0131 i\u00e7in anne ve baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 sayg\u0131l\u0131 olmalar\u0131 gerekir. Yani onlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda
\ngerekli gereksiz tart\u0131\u015fmalara girmemeleri, birbirlerine kar\u015f\u0131 sald\u0131rgan tav\u0131rlar i\u00e7inde bulunmamalar\u0131 gereklidir.
\nYap\u0131lan \u015fiddetli tart\u0131\u015fmalar taraflar\u0131 ne kadar olumsuz etkiliyorsa, bunun \u00e7ok daha olumsuz etkisi \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerinde olmaktad\u0131r.
\nDolay\u0131s\u0131yla anne baba \u00f6ncelikli olarak buna \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermelidir. Bu t\u00fcr korkular uzman yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 gerektirir.
\nbu nedenle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bu t\u00fcrden korkular\u0131 olu\u015ftu\u011funda mutlaka bir uzmandan yard\u0131m alman\u0131zda fayda vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Bu t\u00fcr korkular genelde istenmeyen bir durumla ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131 olarak ortaya \u00e7\u0131karlar. Bunlara \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131\u015f\u0131msal korkularda denebilir. A\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki \u00f6rnek olayda da g\u00f6r\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc gibi k\u0131z \u00f6\u011frenci asl\u0131nda sahurda \u00e7al\u0131nan davulun sesinden de\u011fil, sahurda ya\u015fanan tats\u0131z olay\u0131 hat\u0131rlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in rahats\u0131z olmaktad\u0131r. “\u00c7ocuklu\u011fumdan bu yana hala devam eden korkum, Ramazan aylar\u0131nda sahurda \u00e7al\u0131nan davul sesidir. Bu korkumu yenmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ok …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0},"categories":[2230],"tags":[2237,2236],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4159"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4159"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4159\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":8223,"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4159\/revisions\/8223"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4159"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4159"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.hanimefendi.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4159"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}